one thing i find unacceptable in any partner or friend is when they humiliate or join in the humiliation of their partner, it's a weak disgusting trait that i have no time for. it's a sad reflection upon people that they have to do this, while i don't recoil from brutal honesty, this is a sickness and abusive behaviour that belongs with bullies and thugs and seven other types of immaturity. i've seen this a lot with people who drink, it's so fucking boring and pointless. go and fuck yourself but don't drag someone else into your pathetic perspective.